For the most part, I'm going to leave wedding dance music and the broader topic of wedding reception songs to the DJs of the world! After all, that is one of their specialties. And really, you can pretty much have played whatever you want.
While there are, of course, certain wedding dance songs that are more popular than others, any song that has special meaning to you as a couple or to your families should be included. After all, it is your reception, and you and/or your family/families are paying the bill, so have what you want!
However, having said that, here are some ideas regarding the:
So have your fingers "dance" you over to the above categories, and you'll find some specific suggestions!